Wednesday, October 19, 2011

sweet 18 lovely...



Sorry to have disappear for a few days, especially to those that check for updates twice a day...
This week has been usual, Thaddeus goes to school, enjoys school, eat and sleep well. Kay is walking totally, eat and sleep well. Nothing is really bothering me except my little brother, jarek.
He has broken up with his girlfriend. Such things dun usually bother me, but this time it does because she is a nice girl and I think she has a pitiful background.
After jarek initiated the breakup, she used 2 wks to try to make him reconsider. Well, he didn't and it ended. We met up with her yesterday to celebrate her birthday. I asked her how is she doing, she's quite over the worst already. She will still cry at times but she's convinced that she has no place in jarek anymore. She is quite strong but I'm worried that no one is supporting this low period of hers.
I found out that her family didn't know abt the breakup until she changed her status on Facebook. Poor girl... Her siblings aren't like mine I guess. Facebook would have been the last to know. Until now, her mum dunno... *roll eyes* her father doesn't stay with them, divorced from the mom, so not important to let him know. *tearful eyes* I feel terrible inside when she is strong. This girl puts my brother first in all her decisions. Her humble background made her afraid to demand. She is good in nature, simple and naive at times.
I worry for this young lady because she dun have a family to back her up in many things she do. I want to keep her as friend, as a sister but our relnship is a little complicated. What will her next boyfriend think of us? Dilemma...



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