"Sensored"

I'm excited abt tmr. We're leaving Kayla to my mum and sister while hus and I go for a wedding dinner. If she managed to fall asleep, she will stay over at granny's place tmr; Thaddeus will be with her. She turns 15 months tdy and walking around the house on her own now.
Anyone below 18 years old, please stop here!

Hus and I will be getting some time on our own, I'm looking for some reconnection. I was enlightened on Monday that talking (talk, listen, and be heard) is a woman's need.

To most woman, such level of communication with her partner so important that is comparable to the importance of sex to a man. Plainly, men need sex as much as women need to talk. When I heard this from a male friend, it felt like the heaven opened up and gold coins showered upon me for 10 seconds. Lucky for my friend's wife, he knows woman better than I know myself.

Maybe that's what was missing.

Since staying home, I find myself feeling worse and worse about myself. I have little things to talk to hus abt. I only have 2 bosses, and my world revolves around them. I meet less than 30 people a week and talked to less than 10; all these includes Sundays(church).

When hus is at home, I update him the things abt home, those stuff boring enough that it was done with 1 or both of us talking with our SMART phones in hands; most of the time, the tv is on and the kids are sleeping. Absolutely, no eye contact or whatever.

Seriously, with children who sleep so early, we are losers in time management. With some much going on, what kind of feedback will u expect to get. A nod is best.

Usually, whatever I said seemed unheard and interpreted as unimportant and unconcerned.
So I came up with a new abbreviation for SMART phone- Spoil Marriage And Relationship Technology. Although not the best English, it is the best description. Marriage; relnship of boy-girl, parents-child, etc.

I even thought thru the observations that might back up belief of the woman's needs. Lady readers, it's alright if u need to show this account to your partners. Handsome readers, please apply it to get good fulfillment in your needs. *wink*

Evidence 1: women who dun talk enough to their partners, talk long hours on phones.

Evidence 2: woman marries more alcoholics than workaholics.

Evidence 3: lesbians are getting popular because both parties are fulfilled adequately.

I made up the 3rd one because one of my good friend's ex girlfriend turned lesbian. Strange yet not so... Lastly, I hope
reconnection starts happening for us soon; we also have a kind couple, Enoch and Janna, who offered to throw in more dinner/movie dates soon.

I rarely talk abt my marriage, this is quite juicy right?