Today I have some updates on my children. Kay is speaking a lot more and walking a lot more. She understand my questions and can nod/shake her head accordingly. I took a 3 hr break this evening to meet my friends for dinner. Amazing little girl didn't look for me. I returned home to 2 sleeping children. My little girl has learn to manage separation anxiety on her own already and I've successfully gain her trust; when I say i'll come back, she knows I will.
My boy... He now expresses himself very well. He is learning to speak in good sentences. He is also trying to speak mandarin, though he sounds very funny. He identifies his moods very well and he can even say "mommy, you make Thaddeus sad already." Sometimes he says "angry! 妹妹 makes Thaddeus angry."
What makes me worried is, sometimes Kayla deliberately make him angry, he will want to hit her. I witnessed him raise his hand and hit the floor to release his anger in another way. I'm not sure if this is healthy. The good thing is he did not hurt Kay, but is this bottling up his frustration?
All in all, it's been 11 months since I stopped work and stay home with them, I'm happy with what I'm seeing. I like how my kids are growing and loving how little I miss this time. I see and strengthen Kay's 1st year milestones, I treasure every new attempt of sentencing by Thaddeus. I love every hug and every "i love you" he said. I know this phase will pass soon and never return, um thankful for hus for this.
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